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Edward "Bud" Tipton Funeral Service

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Yesterday was the funeral service for my cousin Edward "Bud" Tipton.

I so wanted to attend his services in person but taking the two and a half hour trip to Pennsylvania just wasn't practical. I would have to take Bill with me and he is so weak these days. Also, there was the issue of possibility of snow. I didn't want to take that chance. As it turned out, yesterday was a sunny day. Today the snow falls here in southern Delaware.

Bud's services were at the same funeral home in Downingtown, Pennsylvania that held both of my parent's services. This is the same place where I will make my final exit. I don't know who will take care of my funeral services but I hope my services is the same as Bud's. 

Like Bud, I'm religiously affiliated with any church. I'm spiritual, I just don't do organized religion. I found it interesting that the minister who performed Bud's services didn't know Bud personally but still was able to project the kind of man Bud was. It was interesting that he kept referring to Bud as "Ed." We didn't know Bud as "Ed." 

I had planned to give my own eulogy for my dear cousin if I had attended. This is that eulogy.

Bud Tipton Funeral Service 

January 18, 2024


Good Morning. I am Ron Tipton, Bud Tipton’s first cousin. His family knows me as “Ronnie Tipton.” 


I am the guy in the famous “Fishing Picture.” 


I haven’t seen Bud in person for many years but we always kept in touch with the annual Christmas card exchange that so many of us do when we go different ways in our lives.

Every Sunday used to go to Ed and Mabel’s.


Our Mothers used to work together at Pepperridge Farm.


Both Bud and I love gardening and landscaping.


I always wanted to invite Bud down here to where I live in Delaware to show off my landscaping skills, which of course came no where near his skills. I regret now that I never got around to it.


For the last three years I have been the full-time caregiver to my 95 year old husband Bill Kelly who suffered a series of strokes. When Bill first came home from the rehab unit I was overwhelmed. I knew and admired Bud’s caregiving for his Mother Mabel. I called Bud and asked his advice at how to cope. Bud’s advice, which I have repeated many times to friends and family the past three years was “Ronnie,, you do what you have to do.” And that was Bud. A man of few words but meaningful and very practical help.


I wish I was there in person today for Bud’s services but I am thankful that I can share this memory with all of you who cared so much for this man who will be greatly missed by all those who knew him. Maybe I wasn’t able to share my garden with Bud in this life but I know Bud is in a perfect garden now and no doubt dispensing with his landscaping advice.

Thank you.


The eulogies were given by his nephew Anthony on behalf of his brother Joe (who lives in Croatia) and his niece Chrissie. They both delivered beautiful eulogies that captured the essence of my cousin Bud. One of his co-workers also delivered a heartfelt eulogy. Oh how I wish I could have rounded out those eulogies with my own. 


Rest in peace dear cousin. You leave a wonderful legacy behind. 


Bud in front of his house and his wonderful landscaping







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